I started series of posts with Part One being a description of my experience with surgery. This part (and so far, I’m not sure how many parts it will be!) is going to be my tips for preparing yourself mentally and physically for surgery and for the post operative time. This is aimed towards surgery for endometriosis, but some of the tips will be useful for other surgeries too.
Obviously, not all of these tips are going to work for everyone. Some people have children, or work or have other health conditions that will change their needs. I really shouldn’t have to say this, but if any of your health care professionals tells you to do something different to this advice – FOLLOW THEIR ADVICE!! I don’t know your body or your other health conditions. I only know mine!
1. Pelvic floor exercises
You are about to undergo a surgery that is going to poke around in your pelvis. If you make that area as strong as you can, it will heal faster. There will be a healthier vascular system – this will both assist in controlling blood loss from incisions and improving blood flow to the area afterwards to assist healing and removal of toxins.
Don’t just do kegels though. Your pelvic floor is basically a big sling for your internal organs (a simplified explanation), and you need to work on all of it. Your body alignment, your pelvis, how you sit and stand all have an affect on your pelvic floor. I did the pelvic floor exercises from healthymoving.com, but I had already signed up for her coaching and challenge program so it didn’t cost me anything extra. Alternatively, an exercise physiologist or physiotherapist can give you specific exercises to help strengthen your pelvic floor.
The other great bonus to this, is that a strong pelvic floor can help with bladder or bowel incontinence, reduce the risk of prolapse and improve your sex life! There is basically no down side to improving your pelvic floor strength.
2. Good nutrition
Although today’s anaesthetic drugs are really quite safe in comparison to days gone by, they are still drugs that your body has to process and remove. For the most part, once you wake up and have breathed out the last of any gaseous anaesthetic you might have had, this will be done via your liver and kidneys and excreted via your bladder and bowel. (Don’t be surprised if your motions smell strange for a few days!)
Unless you have a liver or kidney dysfunction, removal of those drugs will happen no matter what you eat. However, your body is busy doing an awful lot post surgery. It has incisions to heal, hormones to regulate – especially if your ovaries were involved, pain to manage and pain relief medications to process.
If you give your body good nutrition in the weeks leading up to your surgery your organs will be in a better state to deal with this. You will use less ATP (the molecule that cells use for energy) and the process will be easier. Good nutrition is vital for managing the FibroTroll, and is especially important both pre- and post- surgery. I’ve written quite a lot about this, you can find some of those posts here, here, here and here.
If you can, make food for the freezer. If you have a couple of weeks, this can be done by doubling your normal recipes and then putting half in the freezer. If you don’t have that sort of time, see if you can get a friend or family member to help you and spend a day or afternoon making meals for the freezer.
Make sure you have high fibre appealing snacks available. It is not unusual for anaesthetic and pain relief drugs to make you nauseated and/or constipated. You might not feel like eating, so making sure there is something tasty to eat will help. The high fibre will help prevent constipation. Trust me on this, constipation following pelvic surgery is not something you want to try if you can avoid it.
3. Prepare post surgery entertainment.
If you are like me, you will get bored when you can’t get up and move around easily. I tend to think I’m better than I am, and do things too soon and delay my healing. To avoid this, it is good to find some things to do that you will enjoy and that will stop you doing other things.
Find some good books, re-read old favourites or try new titles from authors you already know you like.
If you like to knit or crochet, find a simple but appealing pattern to try. Get the yarn and needles or hooks together, put them in a bag or basket or box with some scissors, the pattern, stitch markers, darning needle and anything else you might need.
Indulge in a game on your phone or tablet if you enjoy that sort of thing. Remember that blue light will interfere with your sleep, and you need sleep to heal, so try to avoid doing that in the evenings.
Watch a new series, or re-watch an old favourite. This is a perfect excuse to binge on Buffy the Vampire Slayer or Dr Who or something similar. Again, remember not to do this in the evenings.
4. Do a spring clean.
I know it’s hard to keep on top of housework when you have a chronic illness. But it is going to be worse post surgery. So doing as much as you can now, will save on things to do afterwards.
Make sure you have plenty of clean pyjamas and loose fitting pants. If the weather is cold, make sure there’s plenty of clean warm clothing. If the weather is warm then loose fitting dresses can me your friend. Anything that avoids putting pressure across your abdomen is good.
Change the linen on the bed, so you have lovely clean sheets post surgery.
5. Pack an overnight bag.
My surgeries have always been day surgery. Meaning I have been discharged the same day and not had to stay overnight. But it pays to be prepared. If there is a complication or your surgery gets delayed due to someone else’s emergency, then there is a chance that the surgeon will want you to stay overnight.
I keep it simple. Clean underwear, change of clothes – I choose something that I am also comfortable sleeping in. Toothbrush and toothpaste, body wash and moisturiser. I find my skin gets very dry in air-conditioning, so I do like to pack a moisturiser. Sanitary pads. I don’t like the ones that hospitals supply, so I bring my own. A book or a crochet project.
Bring your own food if you have lots of dietary restrictions like I do. The last thing you want post surgery is an IBS attack to deal with as well!
6. Organise transport.
This is super important. It is simply not safe for you or the other drivers on the road to drive yourself home from hospital. If you live alone, try to organise someone to be with you for the first 24 hours at least. If this isn’t possible, discuss this with your doctor. They might be able to keep you overnight in hospital or put you on to a service provider that can help.
7. Make arrangements for important commitments.
A few days after I had booked my surgery, a federal election was called and the date scheduled for the day after my surgery. There was absolutely no way I was going to walk down and back up the stairs of my high-set house, let alone think about something like voting the day after surgery.
So, I organised a postal vote, which was great as I could sit in front of my laptop with the voting card and actually research the policies of every candidate in my electorate.
8. Mindfulness
Meditation and mindfulness can go a long way in helping your healing. If you are at all anxious about surgery, I strongly suggest talking to a psychologist if possible and practising mindfulness. Anxiety increases cortisol which can reduce or delay healing. It can also interfere with anaesthetic drugs, meaning you need more drugs to achieve the same result.
Deep breathing techniques where your exhalation (out breath) is longer than you inhalation (in breath) helps to calm the nervous system and activate the parasympathetic nervous system (the calming side of your nervous system). If you can, practice this when you are in the pre-op room. It gives you something to do when no-one is poking at you, and will make the anaesthetic smoother and easier on you (and your anaesthetist!)
But don’t just start in the hospital. Start now. Really. Even just taking a couple of moments to focus on your breathing will make a difference in the long run. I challenge you when you finish reading this, don’t just go on to the next thing you were going to do. Take a deep breath, count slowly to 5 while you do, then slowly let it out again, try and make the exhale twice as long – i. e. count to 10. You might need to purse your lips or do something else to slow your exhale down.
Then do it again. Do it 10 times. Then do it again tomorrow. You don’t have to sit for 20 minutes and meditate (although it’s awesome if you can), start with the breathing and go from there.
Good luck!
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